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What exactly is our point in wanting to be with other human beings? All joking aside that we are on tumblr and most likely locked in our bedrooms by ourselves. But, what I am getting at is, what is wrong with being alone? We all having a yearning to have contact with others, and that is fine, but why so much? As a matter of act, we shouldn’t even care so much about being around others or not. You can sit there and say that you like being alone, because I would too, but we all feel lonely. Maybe not every time we are alone, but loneliness is common in many peoples lives. Loneliness is a feeling we receive if our social relationships are lacking and just doesn’t fit our satisfaction. In fact, loneliness can come even if you are in a crowded room. It just makes you step back and think, “This isn’t right. The world isn’t a right place.” And maybe, perhaps, you think that maybe it isn’t the right place for you, or the scene isn’t the right place to be. That may be so, but you must realize that all you need to be is with yourself. That is the problem with everyone feeling loneliness. Loneliness, in my definition, starts when you believe you haven’t encountered the feeling of belonging. It starts when you lose yourself. To depend on others is a human trait. It is saddening to me because we should have all we need right here by our side. Us. Ourselves. You. Me. Everyone should feel at rest, ease, and at home by themselves. To our misfortune, loneliness does exist and it takes over us if we don’t catch control. It leads to extreme unhappiness and even depression if you let it get far. Thoughts will arise when you feel lonely, but I just want to remind you all: Loneliness doesn’t have to be bad, whether you think so or not. It’s just being alone and frankly, being alone can bring much greater thoughts. You don’t need others to depend on. Do yourself a favor and have some confidence in yourself. Stay strong and stay positive. 
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